{"id":962,"date":"2016-09-26T12:41:55","date_gmt":"2016-09-26T09:41:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/?p=962"},"modified":"2022-08-15T17:08:13","modified_gmt":"2022-08-15T17:08:13","slug":"8-%d0%be%d1%81%d0%bd%d0%be%d0%b2%d0%bd%d1%8b%d0%b9-%d0%bf%d1%80%d0%b0%d0%b2%d0%b8%d0%bb-%d1%81%d1%87%d0%b0%d1%81%d1%82%d0%bb%d0%b8%d0%b2%d0%be%d0%b9-%d0%bc%d0%b0%d0%bc%d1%8b","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/8-%d0%be%d1%81%d0%bd%d0%be%d0%b2%d0%bd%d1%8b%d0%b9-%d0%bf%d1%80%d0%b0%d0%b2%d0%b8%d0%bb-%d1%81%d1%87%d0%b0%d1%81%d1%82%d0%bb%d0%b8%d0%b2%d0%be%d0%b9-%d0%bc%d0%b0%d0%bc%d1%8b\/","title":{"rendered":"8 p\u00f5hireeglit \u00f5nneliku ema jaoks."},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"962\" class=\"elementor elementor-962\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3874da5a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3874da5a\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6ece4c7f\" data-id=\"6ece4c7f\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1d32be4d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1d32be4d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.21.0 - 08-05-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p><strong>1. Ei mingeid v\u00f5rdlusi<\/strong><\/p><p>Vanemad v\u00f5rdlevad sageli tahtmatult oma lapse arengut teiste laste arenguga. &quot;S\u00f5bra laps juba loeb, aga minu oma alles hakkas t\u00e4hti \u00f5ppima&quot;, &quot;Naabripoiss juba k\u00f5nnib ja r\u00e4\u00e4gib, 5 hammast ja meie oma ... ilmselt on tal midagi valesti.&quot; V\u00f5rdlused m\u00e4ngivad suhetes lapsega halba rolli, emal tekib \u00e4revus- ja rahulolematus. Oluline on nautida seda, mis meil juba on.<\/p><p><strong>2. &quot;Siin ja praegu&quot;<\/strong><\/p><p>Elage ja nautige iga lapse arenguetappi. See v\u00f5ib olla raske ja alati ei saa selgeks laste halva k\u00e4itumise p\u00f5hjused. Kuulen sageli vanematelt: &quot;See periood l\u00e4heb m\u00f6\u00f6da ja see muutub lihtsamaks.&quot; V\u00f5ib-olla l\u00e4heb. Kuid te ei saa kunagi tagasi neid hetki, mis on juba m\u00f6\u00f6dunud. Hetked, kus saad n\u00fc\u00fcd \u00f5nnelik olla! T\u00e4na!<\/p><p><strong>3. Andesta ja palu andestust<\/strong><\/p><p style=\"background: white;\"><span style=\"color: black;\">\u00c4rge pidage viha laste peale, \u00e4rge pange neid oma lapselike vigade p\u00e4rast enda ees s\u00fc\u00fcdi tundma. Tunnista oma vigu. L\u00f5petage p\u00e4ev positiivse noodiga.<\/span><\/p><p><strong>4. Alusta p\u00e4eva puhtalt lehelt<\/strong><\/p><p>Andke endale, oma lapsele ja oma suhtele v\u00f5imalus muutuda. See v\u00f5is olla raske ja k\u00f5ik on halvasti, aga tuleb uskuda endasse, oma lapse tugevusse ning hakata suhteid looma v\u00f5i m\u00f5ne olukorra kallal t\u00f6\u00f6tama 100% usuga, et k\u00f5ike saab paremaks muuta. K\u00f5ik on v\u00f5imalik ja k\u00f5ik on teie k\u00e4tes.<\/p><p><strong>5. K\u00fcsi abi<\/strong><\/p><p>Sageli ei otsi vanem piinlikkuse v\u00f5i piinlikkuse t\u00f5ttu abi, j\u00e4\u00e4b oma probleemiga \u00fcksi, v\u00f5ib-olla kardab ta hukkam\u00f5istu v\u00f5i mingit ebamugavat tunnet. Vanematega r\u00fchmades ja seminaridel t\u00f6\u00f6tades kuulen neilt sageli: \u201cSelgub, et ma pole ainuke, kellel selline olukord on\u201d, \u201cMinu peres pole k\u00f5ik nii hull ja raske. On raskemaid olukordi.&quot; Spetsialisti poole p\u00f6\u00f6rdumine v\u00f5i seminaril osalemine annab lapsevanemale uue energialaengu, v\u00e4hendab \u00fcksindustunnet. L\u00f5ppude l\u00f5puks, kui meil on f\u00fc\u00fcsiline vaev, otsime abi.<\/p><p><strong>6. Lase lapsel olla tema ise<\/strong><\/p><p>Loobuge ootustest, omaenda ambitsioonidest, mida te ei suutnud lapsep\u00f5lves realiseerida. Iga laps peaks saama ennast tunda. Aktsepteerige last koos k\u00f5igi tema puuduste ja voorustega. Armasta teda mitte millegi p\u00e4rast, vaid selle p\u00e4rast, mis ta on.<\/p><p><strong>7. Vaata elule huumoriga\u00a0<\/strong><\/p><p>Isegi k\u00f5ige raskemates olukordades leidke midagi head. Positiivne suhtumine on lapsega heade suhete ja \u00f5nneliku emaduse v\u00f5ti.<\/p><p><strong>8. Hoolitsege enda eest, emad<\/strong><\/p><p>Leia aega enda jaoks. \u00c4rge unustage, et te pole mitte ainult ema, vaid ka naine ja naine. Hoolitse enda eest!<\/p><p style=\"text-align: right;\">Autor: lasteps\u00fchholoog Natalja Beljajeva<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. V\u00f5rdluse puudumine Vanemad v\u00f5rdlevad sageli tahtmatult oma lapse arengut teiste laste omaga. &quot;S\u00f5bra laps juba loeb, aga minu oma on just hakanud t\u00e4hti \u00f5ppima&quot;, &quot;Naabripoiss juba k\u00f5nnib ja r\u00e4\u00e4gib, 5 hammast ja meie oma ... ilmselt on temaga midagi valesti ...<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2402,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[87],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-962","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-87"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/962","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=962"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/962\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2460,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/962\/revisions\/2460"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2402"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=962"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=962"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=962"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}