{"id":606,"date":"2016-03-29T23:37:19","date_gmt":"2016-03-29T20:37:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/localhost\/natasha\/?p=606"},"modified":"2022-08-15T17:11:41","modified_gmt":"2022-08-15T17:11:41","slug":"%d0%ba%d0%b0%d0%ba-%d0%bf%d1%80%d0%b0%d0%b2%d0%b8%d0%bb%d1%8c%d0%bd%d0%be-%d0%bc%d0%be%d1%82%d0%b8%d0%b2%d0%b8%d1%80%d0%be%d0%b2%d0%b0%d1%82%d1%8c-%d0%bc%d0%b0%d0%bb%d0%b5%d0%bd%d1%8c%d0%ba%d0%be","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/%d0%ba%d0%b0%d0%ba-%d0%bf%d1%80%d0%b0%d0%b2%d0%b8%d0%bb%d1%8c%d0%bd%d0%be-%d0%bc%d0%be%d1%82%d0%b8%d0%b2%d0%b8%d1%80%d0%be%d0%b2%d0%b0%d1%82%d1%8c-%d0%bc%d0%b0%d0%bb%d0%b5%d0%bd%d1%8c%d0%ba%d0%be\/","title":{"rendered":"Kuidas v\u00e4ikest last motiveerida?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"606\" class=\"elementor elementor-606\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2fca8331 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2fca8331\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6f14ba88\" data-id=\"6f14ba88\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4687f26c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4687f26c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.21.0 - 08-05-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\tK\u00f5ik vanemad tahavad t\u00f5esti, et nende laps kasvaks edukaks, iseseisvaks ja k\u00f5ik l\u00e4ks tal korda. R\u00e4\u00e4gime sellest, kuidas last \u00f5igesti toetada ja motiveerida.\n\n<strong>K\u00fcmme n\u00e4pun\u00e4idet oma lapse motiveerimiseks<\/strong>\n<ol>\n\t<li>Usu alati oma lapse edusse, isegi kui tal on halbu kogemusi. Kui vanemad ei usu oma lapse edusse, ei pruugi laps leida j\u00f5udu enda motiveerimiseks. V\u00f5ite \u00f6elda: &quot;Ma usun sinusse&quot;, &quot;\u00c4ra kunagi anna alla!&quot;, &quot;Sa saad hakkama.&quot;<\/li>\n\t<li>Imetle ja toeta oma lapse k\u00f5iki, isegi k\u00f5ige t\u00fchisemaid ettev\u00f5tmisi. See on v\u00e4ga motiveeriv!<\/li>\n\t<li>Toeta ja ole toeks. Tunne, et nad usuvad sinusse, aitab lapsel palju julgemalt oma eesm\u00e4rgi poole liikuda, annab v\u00f5imaluse raskustega toime tulla ja hoiab motivatsiooni \u00fcleval.<\/li>\n\t<li>Kiida mitte inimest, vaid tegu. Vanemad \u00fctlevad sageli: &quot;Kui suurep\u00e4rane kaaslane sa oled!&quot;, Kuid see fraas ei oma lapse jaoks semantilist t\u00e4hendust ega motiveeri teda edasiseks tegevuseks. Parem on \u00f6elda: &quot;N\u00fc\u00fcd (m\u00e4rkige toimingule) tegite suurep\u00e4rast t\u00f6\u00f6d!&quot;<\/li>\n\t<li>Keskenduge rohkem sellele, mis h\u00e4sti t\u00f6\u00f6tab. Vanemad juhivad \u00fcsna sageli t\u00e4helepanu v\u00e4ikese lapse vigadele, et motiveerida teda edaspidi \u00f5igesti tegema. See on ekslik arvamus. Motivatsioonimehhanism toimib j\u00e4rgmiselt: laps on midagi h\u00e4sti teinud, kiida tema tegu, nii tekib lapses soov seda tegevust j\u00e4rgmine kord korrata. Tugevdame edutunnet, mis motiveerib edasiseks tegutsemiseks.<\/li>\n\t<li>Leidke igas olukorras alati positiivset. Isegi k\u00f5ige \u00f5nnetumas olukorras on alati positiivne hetk, keskenduge plussidele ja arutlege, mida saaks j\u00e4rgmine kord veelgi paremini teha, et k\u00f5ik \u00f5nnestuks<\/li>\n\t<li>Kui laps k\u00fcsib abi, olge alati valmis aitama.<\/li>\n\t<li>Olge oma lapsele v\u00e4\u00e4riliseks eeskujuks. Vanemad saavad talle r\u00e4\u00e4kida oma \u00f5nnestumistest ja eba\u00f5nnestumistest, jagada oma kogemusi. Seega saab laps vanema tuge, ta saab aru, et alati ei saa k\u00f5ik \u00f5nnestuda. Kuid oma eba\u00f5nnestumisi anal\u00fc\u00fcsides saame kogemusi ja teadmisi edaspidiseks eduks.<\/li>\n\t<li>Kui lapsel on olnud negatiivne kogemus, siis suhtu tema kogemustesse alati lugupidavalt. Saate teda toetada ja aidata leida v\u00e4ljap\u00e4\u00e4su.<\/li>\n\t<li>\u00c4rge otsustage k\u00f5ike lapse eest, andke talle valiku\u00f5igus. Seega avaneb lapsel v\u00f5imalus saada kogemusi, uusi teadmisi ja teha j\u00e4reldusi oma k\u00e4itumise kohta.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\nJa mis k\u00f5ige t\u00e4htsam, armastage oma lapsi tingimusteta, lihtsalt selle eest, et teil on nad koos oma plusside ja miinustega. Lapse aktsepteerimine kellegi poolt aitab luua lastes edutunnet.\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">Artikli autor: lasteps\u00fchholoog Natalja Beljajeva<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>K\u00f5ik vanemad tahavad t\u00f5esti, et nende laps kasvaks edukaks, iseseisvaks ja k\u00f5ik l\u00e4ks tal korda. R\u00e4\u00e4gime sellest, kuidas last \u00f5igesti toetada ja motiveerida. K\u00fcmme n\u00e4pun\u00e4idet, kuidas oma last motiveerida Usu alati oma lapse edusse, isegi kui tal on eba\u00f5nnestumine...<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2409,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[87],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-606","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-87"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/606","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=606"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/606\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2481,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/606\/revisions\/2481"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2409"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=606"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=606"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=606"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}