{"id":2354,"date":"2022-08-15T16:16:34","date_gmt":"2022-08-15T16:16:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tempsite.harmooniakeskus.ee\/?p=2354"},"modified":"2022-08-15T16:17:25","modified_gmt":"2022-08-15T16:17:25","slug":"%d0%b4%d0%b5%d1%82%d1%81%d0%ba%d0%b8%d0%b5-%d1%8d%d0%bc%d0%be%d1%86%d0%b8%d0%b8-%d1%87%d0%b0%d1%81%d1%82%d1%8c-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/%d0%b4%d0%b5%d1%82%d1%81%d0%ba%d0%b8%d0%b5-%d1%8d%d0%bc%d0%be%d1%86%d0%b8%d0%b8-%d1%87%d0%b0%d1%81%d1%82%d1%8c-1\/","title":{"rendered":"Laste emotsioonid (1. osa)"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"2354\" class=\"elementor elementor-2354\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6bc6624 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6bc6624\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-04dcc17\" data-id=\"04dcc17\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-83264c5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"83264c5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.21.0 - 08-05-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<div id=\"js_c6\" class=\"_5pbx userContent _3576\" data-ft=\"{&quot;tn&quot;:&quot;K&quot;}\"><div id=\"id_59ff6ea9d733c1664733013\" class=\"text_exposed_root text_exposed\"><p>Hiljuti r\u00e4\u00e4kis \u00fcks s\u00f5ber mulle loo, mis mind hingep\u00f5hjani rabas. Jagan teiega seda jubedat lugu.<\/p><p>Televisioonis esines lasteps\u00fchholoog, kus ta r\u00e4\u00e4kis laste jonnihoogude teemal (hea meel, et Eestis seda polnud - ca N.B.). On lootust, et Eestis selliseid &quot;spetsialiste&quot; pole v\u00f5i ei lasta televisiooni. See, mida ma \u00fctlen, on t\u00f5esti oluline.<\/p><div class=\"text_exposed_show\"><p>Niisiis, tagasi loo juurde lasteps\u00fchholoogi k\u00f5nest. Ta soovitas vanematel lapse raevuhoo ajal teha j\u00e4rgmist: \u201eViige nuttev laps teise tuppa, sulgege uks ja seiske ukse taga, mitte lubades lapsel v\u00e4lja minna. Hoidke nutvat last ukse taga nii kaua, kuni ta on vana. See t\u00e4hendab, et kui poeg v\u00f5i t\u00fctar on kaheaastane, siis kaks minutit jne. Toetades ust jalaga, \u00f6elge: &quot;Rahune maha - siis ema suhtleb teiega.&quot;<\/p><p>&quot;\u00d5udne! Vaesed lapsed ja vanemad, kes seda soovitust j\u00e4rgima hakkavad, m\u00f5tlesin ma. Vaatame seda olukorda ja p\u00f5hjuseid, miks seda kunagi teha ei tohiks.<\/p><p>Esiteks ei aita t\u00e4iskasvanu selline k\u00e4itumine last rahustada. Teiseks, selles olukorras laps mitte ainult ei \u00f5pi emotsioonidega iseseisvalt toime tulema, vaid saab ka signaali: kui oled vihane, \u00e4rritunud v\u00f5i \u00e4rritunud, pole ema kohal. Laps saab keelu v\u00e4ljendada tundeid: viha, n\u00f6rdimust, lahkarvamusi. Kolmandaks karistab vanem last sellise k\u00e4itumisega tema tunnete eest. See on destruktiivne k\u00e4itumine lapse suhtes, traumaatiline lastega suhtlemise viis. See toob kaasa hullema k\u00e4itumise: poeg v\u00f5i t\u00fctar muutub agressiivseks, viriseb, on alla surutud v\u00f5i masenduses. Nad ei \u00f5pi tunnetega toime tulema. V\u00f5i, mis veelgi hullem, j\u00e4\u00e4vad nad palju haigeks.<\/p><p>J\u00e4rgmises osas r\u00e4\u00e4gin emotsioonide p\u00f5hjusest ja sellest, kuidas vanemad peaksid k\u00e4ituma.<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hiljuti r\u00e4\u00e4kis \u00fcks s\u00f5ber mulle loo, mis mind hingep\u00f5hjani rabas. Jagan teiega seda jubedat lugu. Televisioonis esines lasteps\u00fchholoog, kus ta r\u00e4\u00e4kis laste jonnihoogude teemal (hea meel, et Eestis seda polnud - ca N.B.). Lootust on\u2026<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2356,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2354","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2354","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2354"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2354\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2359,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2354\/revisions\/2359"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2356"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2354"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2354"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2354"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}