{"id":2342,"date":"2022-08-15T16:03:48","date_gmt":"2022-08-15T16:03:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tempsite.harmooniakeskus.ee\/?p=2342"},"modified":"2022-08-15T16:14:12","modified_gmt":"2022-08-15T16:14:12","slug":"9-%d1%80%d0%be%d0%b4%d0%b8%d1%82%d0%b5%d0%bb%d1%8c%d1%81%d0%ba%d0%b8%d1%85-%d0%be%d1%88%d0%b8%d0%b1%d0%be%d0%ba-%d0%b2%d0%be-%d0%b2%d1%80%d0%b5%d0%bc%d1%8f-%d0%b4%d0%b5%d1%82%d1%81%d0%ba%d0%b8%d1%85","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/9-%d1%80%d0%be%d0%b4%d0%b8%d1%82%d0%b5%d0%bb%d1%8c%d1%81%d0%ba%d0%b8%d1%85-%d0%be%d1%88%d0%b8%d0%b1%d0%be%d0%ba-%d0%b2%d0%be-%d0%b2%d1%80%d0%b5%d0%bc%d1%8f-%d0%b4%d0%b5%d1%82%d1%81%d0%ba%d0%b8%d1%85\/","title":{"rendered":"9 VANEMATE VIGA LASTE TURI JA H\u00dcSTEERIKA AJAL"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"2342\" class=\"elementor elementor-2342\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-85dde78 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"85dde78\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-832181f\" data-id=\"832181f\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-34af7f1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"34af7f1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.21.0 - 08-05-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<div class=\"cl-blog-naz\"><div class=\"cl-blog-text\"><p>J\u00e4tkan laste kapriiside ja jonnihoogude teemat.<\/p><p>Olen t\u00f6\u00f6tanud vanematega alates 2007. aastast, kogu selle aja olen aktiivselt tegelenud laste kapriiside ja jonnihoogude teemaga. Nii pika perioodi jooksul \u00f5nnestus v\u00e4lja selgitada levinumad vead isade ja emade k\u00e4itumises.<\/p><div class=\"text_exposed_show\"><p>Need kasvatusvead mitte ainult ei aita lapsel rahuneda, vaid vastupidi, suurendavad jonnihoogu ja muudavad soovimatu k\u00e4itumise peamiseks.<\/p><p><strong>9 peamist viga:<\/strong><\/p><ol><li>Ignoreeri last raevuhoo hetkel. Paljud vanemad m\u00f5istavad aegumise meetodit valesti ja ignoreerivad lapse k\u00e4itumist raevuhooajal, kui laps nende poole ulatab.<\/li><li>R\u00e4\u00e4kige oma lapsega raevuhoo ajal. Kui lapsed on n\u00f6rdinud, ei tohiks nendega pikki vestlusi pidada. Nad ei kuula neid, pealegi su k\u00e4itumine ainult s\u00fcvendab ja pikendab jonnihoogu.<\/li><li>T\u00f5mba laps j\u00f5uga tuppa, nurka v\u00f5i pane toolile, et ta rahuneks.<\/li><li>\u00c4rge v\u00f5tke arvesse lapse vanuselisi vajadusi ja individuaalseid omadusi.<\/li><li>Vaidle lastega ja t\u00f5esta neile, et sul on \u00f5igus. &quot;Sa kuuletud mulle ja teete nii, nagu ma teile \u00fctlen,&quot; - teadlik vanem peaks selliseid fraase v\u00e4ltima.<\/li><li>H\u00fcsteeria hetkel \u00f6elge lapsele: &quot;Stopp&quot;, &quot;Nii palju kui v\u00f5imalik&quot;, &quot;Rahune maha&quot; ja muud k\u00f5nekad v\u00e4ljendid. Need s\u00f5nad ei suuda jonnihoogu peatada, pealegi ei rahusta last ega aita tal emotsioonidega toime tulla.<\/li><li>Silu nurgad. Tihtipeale kardab vanem \u201cei\u201d \u00f6elda v\u00f5i, olles selle \u00f6elnud, keeldub sellest, et lapsel ei algaks jonnihoog. Kuid reeglina p\u00f5hjustab t\u00e4iskasvanu selline k\u00e4itumine tulevikus h\u00fcsteeria suurenemist v\u00f5i olukorra halvenemist.<\/li><li>Karista last soovimatu k\u00e4itumise eest. &quot;Kuna sa ei saa maha rahuneda, siis ma karistan sind kohe,&quot; ei tohiks lapsevanem seda \u00f6elda.<\/li><li>M\u00f5elge, et lapsed teevad pahameelt v\u00f5i manipuleerivad teiega. Pea meeles! Nad ei tee kunagi midagi meelega. Soovimatu k\u00e4itumine on signaal, et lapsega v\u00f5i teie suhtega on midagi valesti v\u00f5i laps vajab teie abi.<\/li><\/ol><p>Lasteps\u00fchholoogi autor: Natalja Beljajeva<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>J\u00e4tkan laste kapriiside ja jonnihoogude teemat. Olen t\u00f6\u00f6tanud vanematega alates 2007. aastast, kogu selle aja olen aktiivselt tegelenud laste kapriiside ja jonnihoogude teemaga. Nii pika perioodi jooksul \u00f5nnestus v\u00e4lja selgitada levinumad vead isade ja emade k\u00e4itumises. 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