{"id":1233,"date":"2017-03-31T15:34:08","date_gmt":"2017-03-31T12:34:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/?p=1233"},"modified":"2022-08-15T16:58:33","modified_gmt":"2022-08-15T16:58:33","slug":"%d0%bb%d1%8e%d0%b1%d0%be%d0%b2%d1%8c-%d0%b2%d0%be-%d0%b2%d1%80%d0%b5%d0%b4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/%d0%bb%d1%8e%d0%b1%d0%be%d0%b2%d1%8c-%d0%b2%d0%be-%d0%b2%d1%80%d0%b5%d0%b4\/","title":{"rendered":"Armastus kahjuks"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1233\" class=\"elementor elementor-1233\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-335ca9c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"335ca9c\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-45ac7db4\" data-id=\"45ac7db4\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2ff97938 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2ff97938\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.21.0 - 08-05-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"9gqkd\" data-offset-key=\"fpeni-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"fpeni-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"fpeni-0-0\"><span data-text=\"true\">P\u00fc\u00fcdes luua oma lapsele k\u00f5ige mugavamaid tingimusi, anda k\u00f5ike, mida meil lapsep\u00f5lves polnud, ja j\u00e4rgides samal ajal moodsaid haridussoovitusi, saavutavad vanemad sageli sugugi mitte seda, mida nad soovisid. Ja seega on neil oht kasvada mitte mitmek\u00fclgseks, tundlikuks, vabaks ja iseseisvaks isiksuseks, vaid ... vastutustundetuks neurootikuks. <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"9gqkd\" data-offset-key=\"cth62-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"cth62-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"cth62-0-0\"><span data-text=\"true\">Viimasel ajal on t\u00e4iskasvanud &quot;kadunud&quot;, nad m\u00f5tlevad ja teevad palju laste heaks ning selline hooldus- ja kasvatusstiil on lastele v\u00e4ga kahjulik, nad muutuvad apaatseks, vinguvaks v\u00f5i \u00e4revaks. <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"9gqkd\" data-offset-key=\"d8r0-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"d8r0-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"d8r0-0-0\"><span data-text=\"true\">T\u00e4iskasvanud otsustavad, et nad peavad k\u00e4ituma ideaalse lapsevanemana: mitte n\u00e4rvitsema, mitte h\u00e4\u00e4lt t\u00f5sta, andma lapsele maksimumi. N\u00e4iteks kui emal v\u00f5i isal oli lapsep\u00f5lves \u00fcks abaluu, tahavad nad oma pojale v\u00f5i t\u00fctrele kinkida viis abaluu, hoolimata sellest, et see on t\u00e4iesti ebavajalik. Ja n\u00fc\u00fcd luuakse lapsele k\u00f5ige mugavamad tingimused, k\u00f5ik nurgad on silutud. Isegi kui on vaja lapsele \u201cei\u201d \u00f6elda, vanemad seda ei tee, kartes solvata v\u00f5i vigastada, p\u00fc\u00fcavad nad kuidagi kokku leppida.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"9gqkd\" data-offset-key=\"fbd5c-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"fbd5c-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"fbd5c-0-0\"><span data-text=\"true\">Tekib loogiline k\u00fcsimus, miks selline kasvatusstiil lastele halb on? Lapsed muutuvad apaatseks, ei p\u00fc\u00fcdle millegi poole. Milleks pingutada, kui k\u00f5ik on sinu eest tehtud, kui iga vajadus on rahuldatud? Sellise kasvatusstiiliga ei kujunda laps tahteprotsesse. Ja juba esimesest klassist peale ei taha lapsed \u00f5ppida, sest vanemad teevad v\u00e4ga sageli nende eest kodut\u00f6\u00f6d. <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"9gqkd\" data-offset-key=\"3d8pt-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"3d8pt-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"3d8pt-0-0\"><span data-text=\"true\">Lisaks j\u00e4tavad vanemad pidevalt k\u00f5iki olukordi j\u00e4lgides ja v\u00f5imaluste piires siludes lapse kogemustest ilma. Ja lapsed muutuvad endasset\u00f5mbunud, neil on sotsiaalses m\u00f5ttes palju probleeme. Juba lasteaias ei taheta teiste lastega suhelda. <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"9gqkd\" data-offset-key=\"3otst-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"3otst-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"3otst-0-0\"><span data-text=\"true\">Enamik t\u00e4iskasvanuid soovib n\u00e4ha oma lapsi edukatena, iseseisvatena, iseseisvate otsuste tegemisega, kes suudavad leida endas j\u00f5udu raskes olukorras toimetulekuks. Kuid selleks ei vaja laps mitte h\u00fcperhooldus\u00f5igust, vaid vabadust.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"3otst-0-0\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" style=\"text-align: right;\" data-offset-key=\"3otst-0-0\">Autor: lasteps\u00fchholoog Natalja Beljajeva<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00fc\u00fcdes luua oma lapsele k\u00f5ige mugavamaid tingimusi, anda k\u00f5ike, mida meil lapsep\u00f5lves polnud, ja j\u00e4rgides samal ajal moodsaid haridussoovitusi, saavutavad vanemad sageli sugugi mitte seda, mida nad soovisid. Ja seega on neil oht kasvada mitte mitmek\u00fclgseks, ...<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2393,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[87],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1233","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-87"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1233","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1233"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1233\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2430,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1233\/revisions\/2430"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2393"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1233"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1233"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmooniakeskus.ee\/et\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1233"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}